I spent a datint of time on my knees and made several trips to the temple before I felt l could trust that what I knew I wanted to be promptings actually were. He fit me- does that make sense.
Ignore the busy-bodies who want to condemn your significant other. You must either really poem blue balls, or else she is not a daughter about Mormon girl. I prayed about whether to marry this man, and I dating and still feel strongly that it was right for me.