Whether you like it or not, you are both married to medicine. I'm married an interventional cardiologist; and I wish I only knew 5 years ago before she started her fellowship what the heck I was signing up for.
Move on, but after thanksgiving. She asked me to read that site and write down questions.
If I could Disarvantages would marry a businessman or a builder which could have earned us a lot more and wouldn't mean we had to move so much.