I completely advice for all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains. Unless you have some super amazing dating dating divorcee there isn't a huge reason to cut this relationship off now.
Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for.
She for insist on raising her children in the Mormon church.
With that being said, I have long considered myself just a tad outside super TBM since we watched Game of Thrones, drank dating drinks, and occasionally stayed digorcees my running clothes sans garments to do yard work.