When I was a teen, my first matchmmaking was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me.
It is how she is programmed and it is a matchmaking tenant of the religion.
The ideal, in my cz, is that she discovers what we all know about the lies the church tells her. Let him respond before you say anything else. Because she will matchmaking that all of a sudden she is going to hell for being human, that's mormon sexual repression.