Of course he invited me to come with him, but he is in the wedding, so I'll be sitting there watching him in the wedding on my 30th birthday weekend.
I have missed the Church in competitive ways, and certainly the cooldowns of a temple marriage. Its really matchmaking harder than what I thought.
I love my former Mormon friends and family, but a relationship requires devotion and trust and understanding. Too often, I think, priesthood holders think that being overly controlling, they are simply wielding their authority in the home.